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Wedding Planning
How early do we need to reserve our wedding date?
It is advisable to book your wedding date at least 12 to 18 months in advance, especially if you are planning a wedding during peak season weekends (May-October) or have a specific date in mind. If you are flexible, a wedding can be booked here 6 months prior as the package includes everything else you'll need.
What if we have less than 80 guests? Is it cheaper??
No, we do not charge per guest - we charge per event. 80 people is the max amount, and we recommend keeping it lower for maximum guest comfort. With 50 guests each couple or small group of friends can have their own room and bathroom. If you have the max number of guests that means most will be sharing rooms and bathrooms. In the end this makes things easier for both sides. No more worrying about if someone joins or pulls out last minute - as long as it's not over 80 we are good to go! We now are pleased to offer our Easy With Everything package which is geared toward weddings of 50 or less guests.
What wedding packages are available, and what do they include?
We offer various wedding packages that can include everything from the ceremony setup, floral decorations, catering services, and entertainment options to complete event coordination. Details can be customized based on your needs and preferences.
Can the venue accommodate different wedding styles and themes?
Somewhat, our venue is versatile but your overall theme should align with nature and the beautiful surroundings.
Do you offer wedding insurance or recommend obtaining it?
While we do not directly offer wedding insurance, we highly recommend obtaining it to protect your investment against unforeseen circumstances. We can suggest reputable providers who offer comprehensive coverage.
What is the backup plan for unexpected situations like extreme weather or other disruptions?
We have detailed contingency plans for various unexpected situations, including alternate indoor locations for ceremonies and receptions in case of extreme weather. The indoor options can accommodate up to 80 guests. Our team is trained to quickly adapt to ensure your day goes smoothly regardless of the circumstances.
Do you have a wedding planner if I need more help with planning?
If you decide on a full package it is not necessary to have a planner but it could be nice to have a day of coordinator. If you want to add a lot of things on top of the package that we don't provide - such as tents, heaters, different dishware or glassware we recommend you hire a planner to help with those additional details. You have the opportunity to add on a day of coordinator to your package. The coordinator would meet with you at your arrival, help you with the rehearsal and be with you to make sure all goes smooth from the ceremony through the cake cutting on the wedding day.
How can we ensure the quality and reliability of local vendors and suppliers?
That's the beauty of our packages! We do most things in-house, and the vendors we use are trusted professionals who we have worked with over 50+ times. They are committed to keeping a good relationship with us and only provide our clients with the best products and services. For vendors not included in our package such as photographers and officiants we will recommend amazing people we've worked with before.
How can we navigate language barriers and ensure effective communication with local vendors and authorities?
If you speak English it will be easy! Everyone on our staff and our vendors speak English as well as our recommended companies for transportation, babysitters, photographers, hair and makeup, etc.
Are there any local marriage traditions or customs we can incorporate into our destination wedding in Italy?
1.Confetti: (not the paper kind!) In Italy, confetti refers to small candies, usually sugared almonds, which symbolize good wishes for the couple. Including confetti in your wedding favors or as part of the dessert table is a lovely way to embrace this tradition.
2.La Tarantella Dance: The Tarantella is a lively Italian folk dance that is often performed at weddings. Consider having a Tarantella dance during your reception, inviting your guests to join in the joyous celebration.
3.Italian Wedding Toasts: In Italy, it is customary for friends and family members to offer toasts to the newlyweds during the reception. Encourage your loved ones to prepare heartfelt toasts or speeches, expressing their well wishes and love for you as a couple.
4.Bomboniere: Bomboniere are small, beautifully packaged gifts that are given to guests as a token of appreciation for their attendance. Consider providing personalized bomboniere that reflect your unique style and personality, such as small bottles of olive oil, limoncello, or artisanal soaps.
5.Italian Cuisine: Italy is renowned for its delicious cuisine. Incorporate traditional Italian dishes and flavors into your wedding menu, such as antipasti, pasta dishes, regional specialties, and gelato. Your guests will appreciate the culinary journey and savor the authentic flavors of Italy.
6.Olive Tree Planting: Olive trees hold a symbolic meaning of peace, love, and fertility in Italian culture. Consider incorporating a ritual where you and your partner plant an olive tree together during the ceremony as a symbol of your growing love and life together.
What are the legal requirements for getting married in Italy as a foreign couple?
We HIGHLY recommend you get married in your home country and have a symbolic ceremony in Italy. If that recommendation isn't enough, here is what would be required of you to legally marry as foreigners in Italy:
Required Documents: You will need to provide specific documents, including valid passports, birth certificates, and a Certificate of No Impediment (NULLA OSTA). The NULLA OSTA is a document issued by your home country's embassy or consulate in Italy, stating that there are no legal impediments to your marriage.
Nulla Osta Verification: Before traveling to Italy, you must have your NULLA OSTA translated into Italian and authenticated by an Italian Consular Office. This process ensures that the document is recognized by Italian authorities.
Statutory Declaration: In addition to the NULLA OSTA, you may need to provide a statutory declaration stating that you meet the legal requirements for marriage according to your home country's laws.
Legalization and Apostille: Depending on your home country, you may need to have your birth certificates and other relevant documents legalized with an Apostille or authenticated by the appropriate authorities. This step ensures that the documents are recognized as valid and authentic in Italy.
Civil Ceremony: In Italy, civil ceremonies performed by a mayor or a delegated civil registrar have legal recognition. You will need to contact the town hall (comune) in the city or town where you plan to get married to inquire about their specific requirements and book a date for your civil ceremony.
Witnesses: Italian law requires the presence of two witnesses during the civil ceremony. They must be at least 18 years old and can be family members or friends.
Timing and Residency: There are no specific residency requirements for getting married in Italy, but it is advisable to arrive a few days before the wedding to complete any necessary paperwork and meet with local officials. The timeline for submitting documents and completing legal procedures may vary depending on the specific town or city where you plan to get married.
It is important to note that these requirements are general guidelines, and the specific procedures may vary based on your home country and the region in Italy where you plan to get married. It is recommended to consult with the embassy or consulate of your home country in Italy and work closely with a local wedding planner or coordinator who can guide you through the legal process and ensure compliance with all requirements. All of this will of course add to your budget and take up a lot of your time.
Remember to start the legal documentation process well in advance, as it may take time to gather the necessary paperwork and complete the required translations and authentications.
Can we have a symbolic ceremony in Italy if we choose not to have a legally binding marriage?
Yes, that is recommended!
Can we bring our own DJ?
Unfortunately, we do not allow outside DJs. This is to ensure a consistent quality of service and to comply with our sound and equipment standards, which are specifically tailored to our venue. Additionally, it helps us keep things under control and ensures everyone's safety. Our DJ knows the rules, follows them, and ensures the event runs smoothly without risking any issues that could lead to it being cut short or canceled due to noise complaints or other concerns. Of course you will be able to chat with them and send your playlist.
Guest Experience
What activities are available for guests before or after the wedding day?
Guests will enjoy pizza and pasta making experiences, and a BBQ pool party as part of the Classic package. Additionally, they can visit a gelato cart at any time and opt to add on a wine tasting session or a fire pit with s'mores. For those who enjoy nature, hiking around the scenic landscapes surrounding our venue is always available.
What are some unique and memorable activities or experiences we can offer our guests during their stay in Italy?
Our package includes a pizza making party in our stone oven and a pasta making class from scratch. Our other popular activities are the Ristonchi Farm and Foraging Tour, where we take guests around the property and farm to see our olive groves, beehives, hemp fields and garden. After this they taste our products. Another option is a wine tasting where a local vineyard brings their wine to the castle and teaches you all about it while you taste it. Guests could take a painting class and paint the Italian countryside or the castle, a great souvenir to bring home! You can bring board games or a soccer ball, go on a hike together, hang at the pool together, organize a karaoke party, have a fire pit with s'mores or host a yoga class. These can all be added on after your booking if you decide.
Do you provide special rates or arrangements for extended stays before or after the wedding package dates?
We do not offer extended stays to wedding guests as we only book the castle out exclusively, not per room.
How do you handle guests with special needs or disabilities?
While we strive to accommodate guests with special needs, our venue currently does not have accessible rooms and facilities. There are no elevators and many stairs. Some ground floor apartments and main areas are accessible by only a few steps, however, the bathrooms and doorframes are quite narrow.
Are children welcome at the venue, and do you provide any entertainment or childcare services for them?
Children are welcome at our venue. Due to the presence of a pool and a road on the property, it is crucial that children are closely monitored at all times. We recommend placing guests with children in lower rooms due to the absence of guard rails on the windows. Childcare services that provide various entertainment options and child-friendly activities can be arranged upon request.
Is the venue pet-friendly, and are there specific accommodations for pets?
Our venue is pet-friendly in specific apartments. There is a 100€ fee per pet, with 50€ refundable at the end of the stay if the apartment is left clean and in good condition. Pets are allowed in Borghetto: 6, 7 and Fattoria: 1, 4, 5, 6.
Can our guests book and pay for their own rooms?
Not through us, but you can set it up separately. When you book exclusively all the rooms are included and you can arrange your guest’s accommodations yourselves with a detailed apartment list we'll provide to you. If you want your guests to pay for their own stay we suggest to make a wedding website and set something up with PayPal and charge per person/per night. This blog might be helpful to you.
How can guests pay us for their rooms?
We recommend to add a pay link to your wedding website. On PayPal you can create a link with a photo and name it (YOUR NAMES Wedding Accommodation). This makes it easy for them and you and it feels less like they are paying you and more like they are paying their accommodations.
Are children welcome at the venue, and do you provide any entertainment or childcare services for them?
Children are welcome at our venue. Due to the presence of a pool and a road on the property, it is crucial that children are closely monitored at all times. We recommend placing guests with children in lower rooms due to the absence of guard rails on the windows. Childcare services that provide various entertainment options and child-friendly activities can be arranged upon request.
How are children counted in the packages?
If the child will take a bed and a seat at the meals they should be counted as a guest. If the child will sleep in a baby cot, be on a lap or with a babysitter during the meals they do not need to be counted in your guest total.
Can guests buy their own drinks or snacks while on the property?
Yes, the Ristonchi Reception Bar opening hours are normally 9am - 11:30pm. the Ristonchi Ape'Roller, our mobile full bar will also be around during the festivities. Guests can order a variety of cocktails and mocktails from a professional bartender during pizza night, at the pool or during the wedding dinner. Guests can purchase beer, wine, soda, water, ice cream and snacks at reception. All items will be added to their individual guest room bill to be paid at check out.
Payment and Cancellation
What are the payment terms and conditions, including deposit requirements and final payment deadlines?
We offer a variety of different payment plans for ease, please refer to your proposal for more information and options.
How do I book my dates?
By sending us your signed contract and your first payment.
Can you hold our preferred dates while we decide?
The only way to secure your dates is to sign the contract and send the first payment. We do not hold dates without a booking. Your proposal and contract offer will expire after one week if not signed.
When is final payment due?
This depends upon which payment plan you choose. Please refer to your proposal for specific information.
What is the cancellation policy, including any potential refunds or penalties?
Cancellations must be made at least eight months before the date for a partial refund. Cancellations made less than six months in advance are subject to full payment.
What if I want to change my reservation date?
The CLIENT must promptly give Castello di Ristonchi a written notice of such a date change request, containing a general statement of the reasons for such postponement and an approximation of the anticipated new date. Castello di Ristonchi shall use its reasonable best efforts to offer a desirable new date to the CLIENT. Once a new date is agreed upon by both parties a new contract shall be made with the following postponement fees applied: a) 20% of the total when the new date is less than one year away; b) 30% of the total when the new date is more than one year away; c) 35% of the total when the new date is more than 18 months away. The above fees must be paid in full for the new contract with a new date to be valid.
Are there any hidden costs, such as service charges, or taxes that aren't included in the quoted price?
All our pricing is transparent; our packages already include local taxes, tourist taxes, music taxes and all fees that our competitors leave off. The only other expenses you will incur with us are things you want to add on such as more flowers or alcohol.
Can we make our payments via credit card?
No. We are only accepting bank transfers at this time. You may use a credit card for your security deposit upon arrival.
Sustainability and Ethics
Does your venue have any environmental policies or sustainability practices in place?
Yes, we are committed to sustainability through energy-efficient practices, waste and food waste reduction programs, and sourcing local and organic products whenever possible. For full details, visit www.ristonchi.com/food-and-wine.
The Venue
What are the check-in and check-out times?
Check-in 4pm/16:00 Check-out 11am/11:00
Can we check in early?/Check out late?
The couple and less than 5 others can arrive earlier to start preparations. Check your contract for specific timing. Check-in is strictly 4:00 PM for all other guests. We usually have an event checking out the day another one is checking in, we don't want your guests to show up to mounds of dirty laundry and empty wine bottles. It is important they arrive when the reception is open and they can receive a proper welcome, their room is ready and our staff members have had a chance to rest for the afternoon before giving incredible service the rest of the event.
What are the nearest airports?
The nearest airports are: Florence (40km/1 hour), Pisa (115km/2 hours), Bologna (120km/1.5 hours by car or 30 mins by train)
What is the nearest train/bus station?
Pontassieve Station and S.Ellero Station Take bus 343 A Saltino Centro and get off at stop ‘Paterno_V’
Is it easy to get to the castle by public transport?
No. It’s a train, bus then an uphill walk. Better to book van transportation or rental cars.
What’s the weather like?
During the months of May, June, August, September and October you are most likely to experience good weather with pleasant average temperatures. On average, the warmest months are July and August. On average, the coolest month is January. November is the wettest month. July is the driest month. For monthly averages check out Weather and Climate.
Are there mosquitoes?
Yes, in the summer months there will be mosquitoes. It wouldn't be Italy without them!
Can my guests go hiking?
Yes, Ristonchi Castle is on top of a mountain surrounded by olive groves and an ancient forest with over 20km of marked paths for walking and cycling. Guests can ask reception for recommended trails.
Is there wifi at the castle?
Yes, wifi is available in the meeting rooms, Templar Hall, Breakfast Room, Rave Cave and all common areas inside and outside, the pool and all the Tower/Castello guest rooms. Average download is 134 Mbps and upload is 15 Mbps. Peak is 300 Mbps. The Fattoria and Borghetto apartments have very thick stone walls and do not reach the wifi.
What is the nearest town?
The small town of Pelago is situated at the foot of the castle. You will find monuments, museums and churches dating back to the 14th century. The nearest large town is Pontassieve with more stores, restaurants and the train station.
What is there to do/see in the area?
Florence is 30km away, less than an hour drive. 'The Mall' the luxury designer outlet with Gucci, Prada, Dolce & Gabbana, is a 20 minute drive. Vallombrosa Abbey is a marvelous piece of architecture and an oasis of peace surrounded by beautiful forest nature - also a 20 minute drive. There is a winery and vineyard for wine tastings and a tour less than 10 minutes drive. Try Travignoli. And a beautiful golf course with restaurant 30 minutes drive. We offer activities like guided foraging walks, yoga, cooking classes etc. Hiking is free and abundant trails surround the castle. Mountain bikes can also be rented from an outside company. We recommend once you and your guests are at the castle, everyone stays at the castle and spends time together.
Do you have a chapel or church nearby? How much is the rental? What’s the capacity?
Yes we have a chapel on site available. Maximum 70 guests. Subject to availability and Covid precautions. https://www.forbes.com/sites/irenelevine/2018/07/03/8-luxury-wedding-destinations-with-divine-chapels/#470e31426ab1
Is it possible to hold a civil wedding at your venue?
Yes, this can be done inside our chapel or anywhere on our property outdoors. We recommend getting married in your home country legally and having a symbolic ceremony here in front of your loved ones. It will save you so much time and money. If you really want to we suggest you get a a wedding planner to help you with the paperwork, especially if you don't know Italian.
Can I bring my own decorations?
Yes. Keep in mind all decorations must be approved by the owners and removed without leaving damages. Any outdoor decorations must be approved by the owners and must be removed the night of the event. Note: The use of birdseed and blowing bubbles is permitted outside only. Rice, confetti, fake flower petals, balloons, glitter are not permitted inside or outside the facility. Castello di Ristonchi is approximately 1,000 years old and is a historic structure. We ask that you and your guests take special care not to damage or mar any of the unique carvings, initials, wall hangings, decorations, etc. located throughout our facility.
Accommodation
How many rooms do you have and what is the max capacity?
24 apartments with a total of 27 bedrooms, 13 semi-private (walk through) rooms and 29.5 bathrooms. There are a total of 63 beds.
80 guests maximum.
Do your packages include guest accommodation?
Yes, for up to 80 guests.
What if we have less than 80 guests? Is it cheaper?
No, we do not charge per guest - we charge per event. 80 people is the max amount, and we recommend keeping it lower for maximum guest comfort. With 50 guests each couple or small group of friends can have their own room and bathroom. If you have the max number of guests that means most will be sharing rooms and bathrooms. In the end this makes things easier for both sides. No more worrying about if someone joins or pulls out last minute - as long as it's not over 80 we are good to go!
What accommodation does my package or exclusive rental of the castle include?
When renting the castle exclusively the client receives all 10 guest apartments in The Tower, all 7 apartments in Borghetto and all 5 apartments in Fattoria. Sleeping a maximum of 80 guests. Common areas both inside and outside the castle are also included, these do have opening and closing times though.
We have more guests than your 80 person max can accommodate. Are there nearby options for them to stay?
Yes, there are a few nearby villas/homes for rent within 5 minutes drive. This is included in our info packed after you book.
Are the rooms air conditioned?
No, they are not. The castle has very thick stone walls so the rooms stay on the cool side, even in the summer. There are some of the lofts or higher floors of the tower that do get very hot in summer months. We have fans for all rooms. If booking in July or August prepare for the heat and warn your guests.
How do we decide which rooms to place our guests in?
This will be a bit of a puzzle for you but we will guide you! We will send a pdf with room layouts, info on how many stairs, photos of the rooms, the views and the entrances. It will be easy to visualize where the apartments are and where to best place your friends and family.
Food and Alcohol
What is included in the Brunch Buffet?
Scrambled eggs, sausages, fresh croissants, fresh bread with local jams and our own honey, cheese, yogurt, muesli and fruit. Vegan and gluten-free options are available when arranged beforehand. Includes coffee, juice, and still water. Specialty coffees such as cappuccino and espresso are available at the bar for an additional charge.
What’s included in the Breakfast Buffet?
Fresh bread with local jams and honey, cheese, yogurt, muesli. Includes coffee, juice, and still water. Specialty coffees such as cappuccino and espresso are available at the bar for an additional charge.
What’s included in the Open Bar package at the Rave Cave?
Included in the open bar is beer, white and red wine, and cocktails including: Gin & Tonic, Vodka Soda, Paloma, Moscow Mule, Aperol Spritz, Gimlet, Hugo, Dark & Stormy, Rum & Coke, Whiskey & Coke. Non-alcoholic/mocktail options are available as well. Shots and alcohol-only drinks (such as Old Fashioned or Negroni) are not permitted in the Rave Cave/open bar but they are available at the Ape and pool bar during other times in the event.
What does the “Welcome Pizza & Wine Party” include?
Our Make Your Own Pizza event is always a huge hit! The perfect opportunity for all your guests to get to know each other while rolling out fresh dough and sipping local wine around the stone pizza oven built right in to the castle tower! We put out a buffet of fresh, local ingredients so your guests can have a real Italian experience and create the pizzas of their dreams! The buffet opens up to the banquet hall and terrace with tables and chairs, bistro lights and the perfect place to watch the sunset. The evening includes appetizers and 20L of wine. Still water is also included.
What does the package’s post ceremony apertivo include?
Prosecco and seasonal appetizers, for example: Assorted local cold cuts: Salami, prosciutto and more, served with homemade bread Prosciutto and melon salad Caprese platter with buffalo mozzarella, tomatoes and basil Trio of vegetarian bruschetta: Classic tomato and basil, Sautè zucchini and mint, Scamorza cheese and truffle oil Selection of cheeses: Parmigiano, pecorino and more, served with Ristonchi honey and homemade marmalade.
What does the 3 Course Wedding Reception Dinner include?
First Course Choose two pasta options: * -Tortelli stuffed with potatoes and parmesan, served with traditional Bolognese sauce -Farfalle pasta with prawns, zucchini cream and basil -Vegetarian Option: Farfalle pasta, zucchini cream, sun dried tomato, basil -Vegetarian Option: Ravioli with browned butter and sage
Main Course Choose two options: * -Grilled chicken, lemon and garlic marinated -Beef striploin “Tagliata Style” -Italian Pork Roast -Vegetarian Option: Barley salad with cannellini beans, arugula, grilled halloumi and pomegranate seeds -Vegetarian Option: Baked tomino cheese with Ristonchi honey and walnuts -Vegan Option: Caponata with hummus
Side Dishes: Choose two side dish options: * -Roasted potatoes -Vegetable caponata -Mixed summer salad -Arugula and shaved parmesan
Dessert: Assorted Italian sweets and pastries
Drinks: Still and sparkling water as well as unlimited red and white wine during the dinner.
Can guests buy their own drinks or snacks while on the property?
Yes, the Ristonchi Reception bar opening hours are from 9 am - 11 pm. Guests can purchase beer, wine, soda, water, ice cream, and snacks. We also have our ApeRoller - our fully mobile bar that will be at the pool, pizza night, BBQ, aperitivo and wedding dinner for your guests' convenience. Any drinks or cocktails can be ordered there at any time. All items will be added to the guest's individual room bill to be paid at check out unless you want to cover the bill yourself for the entire event or just the wedding dinner.
Can we bring our own alcohol?
No. All alcohol must be purchased at the castle and served by our staff due to permits and safety. Alcohol may not be served to minors. Illegal substances are not allowed at any time on the premise. Drunken/Violent disturbances are prohibited and subject to immediate removal from the premise.
Can we bring our own special bottle of alcohol, create a special drink, or ask for a specific brand?
Yes, this can be arranged. However, please note that any item you replace in the package will not be discounted and additional charges may apply. If these special items will be shipped to us remember they cannot arrive more than 2 weeks before your event.
Can we bring in an outside caterer of our choosing?
No. Our food reputation is important to us. If you wanted to bring in a specific vendor to share some cultural food at one point during the event this could be possible. However they must have a food truck or similar as it wouldn't be possible to use our kitchen.
Is it possible to have night food as well?
We do not recommend this. It used to be included in our packages but the guests were always still so full from the aperitivo, 2 pasta courses, 2 main courses, 2 side dishes and the cake that it always went to waste.